Sunday, May 15, 2005

Now have my bridal cord


Hi all! Am back from Cebu na last Monday but couldn't find the time to post here (or to check my emails for that matter) haaay, too tired from work when I reach home at 8pm. Anyway, just want to report that I was able to buy the "unity cord" that I have in mind. I was suppose to make it myself-- as DIY cord is popular in w@w (just refer to the thread abt this a few months back ;-) ) but when I saw one at St. Paul's in Ayala, I can't help but think it will be one itsy-teensy burden off my back, dba? And it feels good to be able to cross it off my list (which is still not posted til now, huhuhu)... I was also able to window shop at Oceanic (they now have a shop in Ayala) & saw bells which I can use for the bell girl part. But I didn't purchase it yet coz Auntie Heny (Marlon's tita in L.A. might be able to send us that together with the cinderella carriage which will serve as our ring holder). Well, it's still small stuffs I have tackled.
Was not able to accomplish much (wedding-related tasks) during my last trip as it was really intended to be bonding time w/ my family (my folks were also in town to visit their first apo). But it was a worthwhile trip once I get to carry the little bundle of joy in my arms.

Thursday, May 05, 2005

A Brand-New AUNT


It ticked my fancy! I like the thought of being called "BU-I" or "KHUY BU", but I didn't know that I'd get sooo excited like this when my 1st niece would be born. My sister gave birth to a healthy 6.6 lbs. pretty baby girl. My cousin Chen later reported that the baby's chinky-eyed and reddish. Too early to tell whom she looks like but my aunt, Mama Grace (Chen's mom) said she's a mix between my sister Grace & her husband Nolvin's feature. Well, she couldn't be prettier then. hehe (love my own!) I was really worried abt my Siobe since she texted me Tuesday night that she was feeling contractions na though the pain is still bearable pa kuno. But I was relieved when I heard that she even went out pa to watch an alumni basketball game. I thought "Ah, maybe it's not time yet coz she can even go out pa." I heard from my brother in law Wed. morning that he brought her to Chong Hua na since she was worried that the baby isn't moving. But when they got there, haha the little one is just sleeping. Anyway, we had to wait for one whole day with no news as her cervix didn't budge more than the 3-4cm opening (as we have known since her check-up Tuesday afternoon). Anyway, she was induced for the 2nd time early this morning around 8am (the 1st one was last night but to no avail as her cervix stayed at 4cm opening when checked). But it happened too fast after that. One minute me & Nolvin were talking over the celfone & me calling my Dad to make some arrangements so Nolvin will be allowed access inside the labor room, but the next minute I received a text message from him saying that Grace had already given birth -- to the beautiful baby named GIANNE ANGELIQUE.
I couldn't place my emotions. I'm feeling soooo ECSTATIC!!! Am now a certified AUNT... I remember going to the cr & released my pent up emotions there. Cudn't help but shed a tear of joy & relief that it's finally over & that my sister is safe... Truth be told, I was really scared last night. I remember that my last thoughts before I slipped into a restless slumber was frantically asking Papa God to keep my Siobe safe & the baby too. Childbirth is really amazing. You could not begin to describe how it makes you feel. It made me realize that at times like this, there's no one to turn to but God. Faith would somehow pacify your heart. Resignation to the thought that there's someone up there who's ever powerful taking good care of your love ones so you really need not worry.
I'm off to Cebu tomorrow night w/ my brother Jayr of course to be able to hold to tiny blessing in my own arms. Was able to receive some pix & video via MMS from Chen earlier, and it made me even more eager to see my niece. Cudn't wait...

Tuesday, May 03, 2005

photo mosaic

here's the latest craze over the w@wies world...

just would like to thank Mai (ni Paul) for sharing the site where i've downloaded the software for photo mosaic. too bad it's for a few days only. but i was able to make a few mosaics of our photos :-)

Friday, April 22, 2005

Belly Dancing

I'm hooked in my new hobby ---> belly dancing! Would you believe??? me, of all people.. hehe But the thing is, I am enjoying it!!! This is my 2nd session coz I started last Saturday. After the activity, my muscles are not as sore as the first time. Waaah, as in I have to apply Bengay jud last Sat.
You might think that a skinny person like me need not engage in such an activity, but before you say anything, TRY IT!! I promise if your instructor is as good as mine, you'll soon be hooked, just as I am now. hehehe
Just to prove my point, last Sunday I went to SM (last day of their 3-day sale) to look for the Belly Dancing instructional VCD of Andrea Del Rosario & Regine Tolentino. Although I enjoy going to the gym coz I get to see myself in the full-length mirror. VAIN!
Hopefully I get better in this in time. If not, I'll have this body pressure-cooked so I can do the "shimmy". hehehe. Ambisyosa!
Those who are still self-conscious, I promise this is one hobby worth your while. As you go along, you will also enjoy the benefit of a boosted self-esteem & a good body posture. As for me, my aim is to have a bikini-worthy abs come my honeymoon. (i wish!)

Saturday, April 16, 2005


This will be the suit Marlon will wear on our altar date. Posted by Hello

As designed by JUDE ELARDO  Posted by Hello

The perspective of my DREAM WEDDING CAKE... wow! whoever said that fairytales don't come true has not met my Honey yet or my cake designer for that matter. Yipeee!!! " dreams do come true.. Mine did when I met you..." Posted by Hello

Thursday, March 31, 2005


Disney's Hollywood Hotel rates Posted by Hello

Wednesday, March 30, 2005


hotel rates of HK Disneyland... my dream honeymoon destination. haayy, can't wait!!! Posted by Hello

Sunday, March 27, 2005


Our Save The Date cards for the guests Posted by Hello

This is what I have labored over the week-end, our Save The Date cards for the guests, specially for the ones from other places. It's kinda difficult coz in our case, most of our friends & relatives are from Cebu, Zambo. del Norte & Pagadian. And we're both based in CDO. Phew! you can really say that I have a hard time organizing everything for this once in a lifetime important event in our life. But this is worth it. I'm enjoying the preps.

Wednesday, March 16, 2005

Excited... that best describes me today. Inspite of the hectic day that I had in the office, I was still in a fairly good mood maski pa kuwang sa sleep coz I got home past midnight na doing OT in the office. Dennis (a prospective photographer) texted me around lunchtime to inquire if I have received the package he sent me yesterday containing a sample of his wedding works in a dvd. I texted him not yet & asked for details of the package (tracking#) so I can follow it up with the courier. But I didnt have to do that, before he was able to reply, the personnel from Aboitiz delivered na the package to me. So, even if I'm a bit dizzy from lack of sleep pa the prev. night, I'm so looking forward to view the sample work tonight.
Not only that, just after the exchange of text message with Dennis, another wedding supplier texted me. It's San (a swarovski bridal cord-maker) texted me that she will send me the sample of my cord tonight. Yippee!!! I'm sooo looking forward to checking my email tonight. So, what am I waiting for??? nyt, nyt!!! mwahh...

Sunday, March 06, 2005


simply me =) Posted by Hello

Friday, March 04, 2005

The Tale of My Engagement Gift!!!- a replacement, actually

Yehey... ecstatic today... cause of my blissful state? After so many months of battling with the supplier of my notebook (an engagement gift from Marlon to help me w/ the wedding preps) to have it changed coz the first one he has purchased had crashed barely a month after delivery. I mean, I'm not a computer-savvy person but I do know that if it is the motherboard that has a problem then it's defective. And there's no way for me to accept the defective unit just like that. Marlon did not intend to purchase a defective gadget with his hard-earned money, you know. The reason why he chose to buy a branded notebook though a bit pricier. Actually, it came as a nice surprise, my laptop that is, but not the hassles that came with it.
Here's the story....As we were preparing for our engagement party (sometime in Aug. 2004), my pc has a problem at that time so I was not able to use it, Marlon just surprised me one tiring night after my office...brought me to my apartment, had our usual dinner together & casually told me that my pc had been repaired already. I said "ok, thanks". Then he told me that he has a surprise for me waiting upstairs in my bedroom, but I have to finish dinner first.(talk abt bribery ;-) Cant wait to see what it is, so I hurried with dinner and ran upstairs to check it out.. but I have no idea that it's a laptop.
When I saw it, whooaa!!! I LOVE IT... can't wait to try it out. That was mid-August.

fast forward to more than 2 weeks after, cant exactly recall when... something went wrong. I thought it was just me, maybe I didn't know how to properly use it yet. But the prob. persisted. I checked w/ my younger cousins (Ryan & Chen), who are more adept w/ computer technology & they advised me to bring it back to the supplier to have it checked. At least it's within warranty pa. That's when I found out that the motherboard was defective. So immediately I made a complaint letter (as advised by the owner) addressed to HP (my laptop is a Compaq) but to my dismay, no word from them after more than two months inspite of my bf's persistent follow-up. To add to my fury, when Marlon called up their office (relenting to just have the defective unit repaired coz we want to be able to put it into use na), the supplier was the one pa who got angry. He said that we shouldn't have used the unit if we were not satisfied in the first place. The gall of that guy! Finally, I got fed up so I called the local DTI office of CDO & asked for their advise. Know what? The supplier was called in for initial investigation & was told to have my unit replaced with a new one (at this point I would never agree to have it just repaired). The days that followed had been nightmares... I had to wait for so long (Nov. to Jan.) & not only that I came to a point where I called up their HP Representative in Manila. Some days I get bitchy & say stuffs I didn't realize I am capable of saying. They are really getting into my nerves!!! But I just would not give up. I should teach them a lesson. On the other hand, this particular prob. had been tearing the seams of our usually peaceful relationship. Marlon & I fought often bec. of this. (Later on he did admit that he was close to shoving the laptop in front of the supplier's face... hah, wait a min. mental note: my fiance is capable of such horrible things if provoked... hehe...I know that already. Marlon's a very patient person, just don't eat up his patience. You will be threading on a dangerous ground. hehehe) But in my mind, I am determined to win this battle & I want to teach the supplier a lesson or two about handling customer complaints. I've exhausted all means of communication. I emailed the executives of the company & told the HP Rep. that I would not budge even if it will have to reach the president of their company. (Maybe what did it is the fact that I threatened to use my gadget as demo unit just to show whoever is interested that their wares' quality are not as good as they are advertising). It did reach that point. I was downright mean & bitchy, but to this day, I will never apologize for the things I've said to them... they deserve it. After I got my replacement unit (which bdw was exchanged w/ the defective one at the DTI's office bec. no way would I want to set foot on their store premises), I emailed a lengthy, detailed letter to their customer service dept. & made an account of what transpired between the time my fiance purchased the orig. unit to the time I got the replacement laptop, complete with all the supporting documents.
The good thing about this is that I have learned that DTI (at least the one here in CDO) are doing their job well- I have emailed a letter commending the services extended to us by Ms. Masillones. I did send her a box of donuts to thank her for her invaluable help. And most importantly, we should know our basic right as customers.

There goes a passionate account of the tale of my engagement gift.

Thursday, March 03, 2005

Got our souvenirs na!...

our wedding souvenirs for the guests
this is what we are going to give to our Principal Sponsors
for the guests...

Today I got a sample of the wedding souvenirs we've ordered in Tabora. They are clear glass paperweight. I love the big ones (they willl be the ones we will give to our principal sponsors). Super clear the glass & the laser printing of bride & groom facing each other. It has 2 cherubs each holding an umbrella over the shoulders of the bride & groom complete w/ our name & wedding date inscribed). Of course I'm biased as we chose it ourselves (",) Though, the ones we will be giving out to our guests are not quite as clear as the big ones (it's cube-shaped w/ same laser-printing) but they're nicely done also. I just hope that our guests would like it as much as we do.

Friday, February 25, 2005

My Day!


dining out w/ friends on my birthday! Posted by Hello
Today I turn 28!

Dad Alex & Herbert (Marlon's fave friend) came over to celebrate w/ us on our Marlon & my birthday last Feb. 23 & 24, respectively. This photo was taken by my Dad Alex, the ever-famous personal photographer?? of ours who had captured beautiful pictures of our previous trips.

Do we look happy? U bet!!!

Sunday, February 20, 2005

10 months to go...

Less than 10 months away from our big day, and here I am cramming for the preparations. Don't know where to start.

From Opposite Ends...

I am quoting my all-time fave writer Danielle Steel. Go ahead and fall in love...

From opposite ends
of the earth
we came,
trundling
our bags,
our treasures,
our laughter,
our
hearts.
From opposite ends
of the city
we came,
from different points
where we
once stood,
so near,
yet far apart.
From opposite ends
of the world
we came,
silent and cautious,
unseen.
From opposite ends
of a lifetime
we came,
and found
a breath
of magic
hovering
in between.
From opposite ends
of a kiss
we come,
to hold
each other
tight
beneath
a starry sky.
From opposite ends
of a heart
we smile,
two lives
blended
into one.


-d.s.

Thursday, February 17, 2005

W@W Unity Coins


When I started discovering this yahoo group, I surfed the net to my heart's content. As in other newbies who had only discovered that there is a whole world of possibilities out there, I get to sleep at 2am, stopping only when I realize that I'm getting migraine attacks for being exposed to the monitor for so long (hehehe, talk about being addicted to surfing). Anyway, one of the things I discovered are the unity coins, though at first I thought it's only available in the States. Boy, was I ever glad when I saw it being advertised at Weddings at Work website. What am I waiting for? Sent Benz a message (via KanChiu group as I was not yet enrolled in the w@w yet). Benz was quick to reply & we arranged the sending of my unity coins including the freebies she gave me (desktop calendar, Little Kan Chiu book & Bride's Primer). I was happy with my coins! Although I wont really be using it in the ceremony (coz Marlon's mom left them w/ 2 sets of old coins as arrhae na) but I will definitely include it sa pictorial. I remember even posting a comment about it sa w@w. Benz is really kind and accommodating & quick to reply to my queries. I would definitely recommend brides-to-be to get the unity coins.

Monday, February 14, 2005

Our 9th (and final) Anniversary...

Yah, it's V-day and all but beyond that, it's also our 9th Anniversary today. I know, i know some of you might have different reactions towards the date ranging from HHhhhwwwatt??? you answered him "yes" on Valentines Day? How mushy can you get. It's like I did a crime for choosing to be Marlon's girl on this particular day 9 years ago..well, some others (like a particular cousin of his) certainly likes the idea of celebrating their anniv. on V-day (too much that she even thought of breaking up with his then-bf & getting back on V-day just so they can change their anniv. hehehe.

Well, today is more than just our 9th Anniversary because it's also going to be our last.. because I won't just be his gf next year, silly. I'll be his WIFE...(exciting!)

Anyway, I'm off to office or I'll be late. I'm looking forward to our dinner later.
Happy Love Day!!! mwah.

Monday, November 08, 2004


Marlon & I Posted by Hello